It is known that one searches for his spouse as if he was searching after a loss, and she brings him closer with her prayers.

Our main assignment in life is finding a match and establishing a home and a family.

Despite the great will and longing to stand under a canopy )Chupa( and fulfill this important Mitzvah, sometimes finding a match takes a long time and gets delayed.

By participating in lighting candles for the righteous, many were blessed with salvation in regards to this important Mitzvah as well.

After the demise, the connection to the righteous is more beneficial than in life, especially due to the perpetual candle that one lights at his grave (the Rabbi from Dinov).